FEATURE: reporter Meghan Delmonte tells of struggles and advice when it comes to body representation in the media

January 18, 2021

When I was little, I asked my mom why I didn’t look like some of the women that were presented in magazines, movies, and TV shows. She looked at me and simply just said, “Honey, they aren’t real people. They are famous.” As I got older, that quote stuck in my head as I grew into being a woman.


When I turned 12, I cried in the school bathroom because a girl who sat next to me in class, told me “being fat is ugly.” From that point on, I assumed I wasn’t worthy enough because I wasn’t society’s standard of beauty.  I grew into social media and the understanding of the world of Instagram and other social media platforms. Every single day on my feed, I came across tall, beautiful, slim women who would constantly be praised by her following for how gorgeous she is and how many others would “die” to look like her.


I started to slowly sink into a depression stage in my life and I was constantly comparing my looks, body, and worth to women like the Kardashians/Jenners and other influencers who looked similar. In 2016, I went to the mall with some friends and I came across something I had never seen before. Rookie plus sized model, Ashley Graham, was on the cover of Sports Illustrated in a bikini showing off her body. I had never seen someone in a magazine that had a similar body type to me. After that, I deleted influencers on my Instagram that I kept comparing myself to and I decided to throw myself into the world of body positivity.


I never experienced body representation while I was growing into mine. I never understood why I didn’t look like the women who were the “it girls” of my childhood. I noticed that the media and the public eye only showed off women and men who looked more appealing than the average person. They all were fit and beautiful people – but what about showing off every day people?


Upcoming plus size models all over the world started jumping into the scene of the plus sized community after the debut of Ashley’s big break with the modeling industry. An up-roar of body positivity based groups started surfacing the internet. Body loving pages started to appear and loving your body for what it is became the newest trend.


Savannah Rosaé, 20 of Florida said, “I feel that self love is the best kind of love…it’s learning to love yourself for who you really are, including all the things that you may think are flaws.”


Influencers like Dani Dmc (@itsdanidmc), Javiera Quintana (@javiera), and even fashion models like Latecia Thomas (@lateciat) all have become advocates for supporting the plus sized community and their beliefs for supporting all sizes.


“Having more plus sized models shown in the media will help future generations feel more comfortable in their own skin.” Says Rosaé, when asked if  having plus sized models in the media is beneficial for younger generations.


The effects of allowing no body representation in society has given teens and adults all around the world low self esteem, depression, and body dysmorphia, but the causes of the body positivity movement and the fight for body representation have increased teens and adults confidence through body representation in media.  Many groups of body empowering models/influencers have made a community for themselves and for everyone looking for a safe space.


In 2016, Ashley Graham spoke with Vogue about plus size modeling and the big debate on being plus sized.  Graham said, “For so long, curvy women have been a token in the fashion industry. Maybe we saw one curvy model in one editorial in an entire year, or we were limited to a magazine’s shape issue.”  Graham spoke about why she had to work harder as a model to be where she is because companies and agencies didn’t want her for her weight.


“I find it disgusting that fashion companies and model agencies refuse to represent plus size women/men. A lot of them even refuse to make their clothes for all sizes and it’s sad, it’s hard when you go into a store and see a cute outfit but they never have your size.”


Graham was the first plus sized model to be represented in American Vogue and  Sports Illustrated. She has been named this generation’s body- positive icon and continues into 2021 to make a difference for generations everywhere.


The fight for body representation has become a slippery topic for some. Many body positive influencers have spoken out on multiple platforms to say “enough is enough” and they are “tired of skinny people making this a joke.” Some have been commenting on the movement to say that “it’s promoting obesity and unhealthy behavior,” while a huge burst of positive comments have been made to say that “the movement has saved me.”


Body representation and the plus size community  isn’t just about the stop of fatphobic hate and empowerment of having curves, it also is fighting for being in the body you are in and loving it. No matter if you’re skinny, mid size, curvy, or big… you shouldn’t be ashamed of what you look like.


Fashion companies have opened up about their support towards the movement and have been representing many different body types. Singer/song writer, Rhianna has been praised for her undeniable love and support towards all bodies by showing off every type of body in her Savage X Fenty campaigns.

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About the Writer
Meghan DelMonte, of New Castle PA, is a senior Writing and Publishing major. She is an aspiring writer and model. She loves music, fashion, photography, and loves traveling. Her biggest goal in life is to become a plus-sized influencer and write for a music magazine.

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    Layla ClineFeb 7, 2021 at 8:31 pm

    Over quarantine I got really self conscious about my body because I used to be super skinny. I thought that because I was growing up more, that I didn’t look pretty/etc. Similar to you, I found someone really inspirational and passionate about the idea that all women are beautiful. That it doesn’t matter what pants size you are, what your friend’s pants size is, or your siblings. A quote she said was “I don’t think of myself as plus size. I think of myself as MY size.” And after hearing that and her continuing to talk about body positivity and how our bodies do so much for us, it made me get so much more confident than I used to be. I started viewing myself differently, and realized that I was going from a girl to a women. Especially because I’m still young and it’s normal to be growing. Occasionally I’ll still get those days where I’ll feel almost insecure about the littlest things, but again I just remind myself of what I DO love about myself and how much my body does for me. I‘m glad that we’re slowly getting to a point in society where there’s so much body positivity everywhere. Especially with females. Females supporting other females is such a nice thing to see. And I hope to see more body types modeling different things, and being on the front of every sort of magazine.

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    Piper RedfordFeb 7, 2021 at 3:42 pm