May 23, 2021

The LGBTQ+ community is no stranger to harmful stereotypes. From the “flamboyant gays” to “Uhaul lesbians,” there’s clearly a pattern of people pigeon-holing its members.


The SIREN took it upon itself to specifically investigate the confused bisexual stereotype and its affects on modern bisexual people.


A common argument against bisexuality is the claim that it is simply “a phase.” 


“I think it is very hurtful when someone assumes that a big part of your life is just a phase” says Molly Green, a sophomore writing and publishing major from Economy Borough. 

Molly Green

Other bisexual people seem to sympathize. 


“Important people around me [have] invalidated my sexuality and said things like, ‘[…] everyone is confused at this point in adolescence,’” said Georgia Williams, a sophomore pre law major from Sewickley.


Some comment on the pressure to seem “valid” in the eyes of their peers.


“There’s pressure for bisexual people to date both their gender and the opposite/another gender to ‘prove’ they’re bi,” said Abby Mitchell, a sophomore dance major from Montour.

Williams agreed: “Only when I started dating my girlfriend was it taken more seriously.”


These stigmas may also contribute to who they feel comfortable sharing their sexuality with. 


“About one-quarter of bisexual adults (26[percent]) are not ‘out’ to any of the important people in their lives…” writer Anna Brown from Pew Research Center cited. 


“Especially as someone that is not out to most of my family, a part of [the dating] experience is being able to share that with your family and friends and have them be supportive,” said Green. 


“But, having a family where you are not sure whether they are going to support that is weird and makes it more awkward since that’s a big part of dating someone.”


Shea McElligott, a sophomore from South Fayette school district, mentioned the apprehension of telling others about being bisexual: “Because I know that the people I am around haven’t always been that accepting, and it kind of scared me, I don’t want to be thought of differently.”


McElligott gave an example of a personal experience when a female significant other used his sexuality against him: 


“[I have been] straight up called slurs in arguments. It does hurt because it makes you feel more oppressed, and again afraid to be who you actually are.” 


Another thing often misconstrued is the fluidity of bisexuality, which is something all of our interviewees could reach a consensus about. 


“From what I’ve noticed,” said McElligott, “ [in] other people’s experience, not everyone is 50 percent. People are different.”


Mitchell seems to agree. “It’s fluid, and it’s not split 50/50.”


“I really wish people would understand that being bisexual fluctuates a lot with attractions to [different sexes and genders],” said Williams.


“I always say that it’s 100 to 100,” said Green. “All of me, 100 percent of me, is attracted to men, and 100 percent of me is also attracted to women.”


 “I think that some people are -90-10-; some are -99-one, some people are -50-50-. You know it really depends. No matter what those individuals’ percentages are, they are all still bisexual,” Green stated. 


Green closed: “I think that [using the label] is just finding a home in the word and identity of being bisexual, and that [comfort] shouldn’t be taken away from anyone.”

About the Writers
Jade Davis is a sophomore in the Writing and Publishing department. An interesting fact about her is that she takes singing lessons - but, as for writing she hopes to become a political journalist someday, and to be a poet on the side. In the newspaper she will be seen writing about the topics of race and health.
Grace Anderson is a tenth grade writing and publishing major going on her fourth year at Lincoln Park. Hailing from Moon Township, Grace enjoys going on hikes with her dog and taking in the scenery, indulging in baking and gardening on the side. 
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